I feel like such a wimp, but I’ve been crying like a baby the last few days. They’re mostly tears of happiness, but they’re tinged with a bit of sadness too, for time come and gone. Vanessa graduated from kindergarten yesterday and I’m so happy to report that it’s been an incredible first year of school for her — and for me.
For starters, all my worries about my daughter’s English abilities (since we only speak to her in Spanish) melted away pretty quickly as I saw and heard her flourish in her kindergarten class. I’ve always known Vanessa’s vocabulary in Spanish is much more extensive than in English, and yet, she had absolutely no issues communicating not only with her teachers, but with all the little friends she made this year.
As you might remember, Vanessa also had the opportunity to learn how powerful it really is to be bilingual, as there was a little boy in her class who had just moved from Mexico to Denver a few months prior to the start of the school year. Vanessa served as his translator; a connection to his native language and a bridge to his new one, making the transition much smoother for the boy who is now bilingual.
But the most amazing thing that happened this year to Vanessa is that she learned how to read and she’s been loving every single minute of this awesome journey! I’ll be forever grateful to her kindergarten teacher because even though I know it was her job, I’ll always remember her as the person responsible for teaching my daughter how to read in English so well that she was able to come home and transfer those skills into Spanish. I’d be lying if I said I didn’t worry about the whole reading process because I had always heard that it’s better for bilingual children to learn how to read in their dominant language, which in Vanessa’s case is Spanish. But children have a funny way of teaching you to have faith and it truly never ceases to amaze me how incredibly flexible a bilingual mind really is.
Not only is Vanessa reading perfectly well in both English and Spanish, but the week before school ended I got notice from her teacher that she’s actually reading above grade level! I can’t begin to tell you how proud and excited I am for her, considering very little English is ever spoken or read at home. So for all of you out there who are using the mL@H method and are worried your children are not getting exposure to English, my daughter is the perfect example of why you need to stop worrying.
That is so sweet that she was translating for the new student!!! Not only a testament to her mastery of both languages, but a wonderful example of compassion.
Thanks for your comment, Becky! I meant to add the link where I tell the story of Vanessa translating for the little boy to the post, but I was at the airport on our way to Disney World! So here it is in case you’d like to read it: http://spanglishbaby.com/2011/08/the-everyday-beauty-of-bilingualism/
The photo says it all – a beautiful, proud, vibrant girl, full of possibilities. I love it. Felicidades to Vanessa and to you and your husband. Qué felicidad
Gracias, amiga! She was soooo happy school was out, jajajajaj!!! She absolutely loves school, but she’s been looking forward to summer since we’re going to Miami for a week later in July!
Felicidades Vanessa! I remember that my mama tape recorded me reading once and it was so special to find it not too long ago. Don’t know if you have talked about this or not somewhere on the site, but what a great summer project it would be to videotape Vannesa reading in both languages! How neat it would be to be able to compare progress every year! Felicidades a todos!
That’s a great idea, Elizabeth. I have video of her reading, mostly in Spanish, but I love the idea of having her read in both, ideally from a bilingual book, and record the audio. I’m sure she’s love to hear it later on when she’s a bit older. Back in my days way before Skype (what a blessing!), my mom used to tape record us singing songs or reading and sending a message to our family back in Peru. I love listening to those tapes now.
I know you are so proud! And I’m inspired once again to do my best to help my kids be bilingual. Thanks for sharing this. (And she’s precious standing out there in front of her school!)
Thanks so much for your words, Susan! I’m glad my daughter’s bilingual journey can serve as inspiration. In fact, that’s pretty much the goal of SpanglishBaby… to be able to inspire and empower parents in their bilingual journeys with their kids. We all need to turn to each other for support and just to share our ups and downs! I love this community!
How exciting Rox! I would be crying too. I cry at all their birthdays! It’s so exciting to feel so proud and it’s amazing that she is already applying the english skills into Spanish, que bueno amiga!!