“I’m raising my daughter bilingually in Spanish and English. Her father is a native Mexican whose first language is Spanish. I speak to her in English. The problem I’m facing is that her father doesn’t really speak to her in Spanish. Instead, I have a nanny that only speaks Spanish to her. My daughter understands both languages equally, but she will only speak the tiniest bits of Spanish, and even insists on speaking English to her non-English speaking nanny. It’s as though she just doesn’t see the need to speak Spanish. How can I encourage my daughter to speak more Spanish? Also, where can I find a list of Dual Language Immersion schools? She’s going to be ready for preschool soon and I don’t want her Spanish to backtrack. Any advice is appreciated!
Thanks,
Rebekah”
Hi Rebekah. I have a very similar problem! My husband is Colombian and we are raising our son bilingually. Unfortunately, since my husband is perfectly comfortable in English as well as Spanish (and I suppose the same is true for your husband), it is very easy for him to slip into English when speaking with our son – especially since our son is more fluent in English and tends to want to speak more English than Spanish. Unfortunately, one of the best solutions for your problem is mainly in the hands of your husband. If you can get him to speak Spanish exclusively to your daughter, you would see her proficiency improve and she might feel more comfortable speaking the language. You don’t say how old your daughter is, but I would guess that her reluctance to speak Spanish doesn’t really have much to do with not seeing the need to speak it. She is most likely just more comfortable/proficient in English. You can also buy books, videos, toys and other materials for her in Spanish as a means of “sweetening the pot!” We offer our son “free screen time” (i.e., extra time on the computer) if he plays games or views videos in Spanish. Some of his favorite sites are:
SuperSaber: http://www.supersaber.com/
Club Penguin (in Spanish only!): http://www.clubpenguin.com/es/
Isla Megatrix: http://www.antena3.com/islamegatrix/
GoGoLingo: http://www.gogolingo.com/
BrainPOP Español: http://esp.brainpop.com/
As for Dual Language Immersion schools, I don’t know what area you live in, but you can research that for yourself with an excellent database from CAL – the Center for Applied Linguistics. The searchable database is called the “Directory of Foreign Language Immersion Programs: and it can be accessed online at: http://www.cal.org/resources/immersion/. Good luck!
Hola Rebekah ~ I trust that Lori’s reply provides a feeling of “Ah-ha” with you. I too was married to a Latino man who defaulted to English in our home daily. IF (and I know it’s a BIG IF) you can convince him to focus on Spanish only with your daughter, she will begin to willingly speak more in Spanish.
The sites that Lori mentioned – focusing only on Spanish – would provide a great incentive for your daughter. I would suggest finding a local moms group who speak in Spanish and also seek to maintain that language thus requiring Spanish-only during playtime.
Best to you amiga – it can work! And best part is her little brain is being wired for later language learning even if she’s not verbalizing as much as you wish she would in Spanish.
What are some good online resources for searching out bilingual playgroups?
I’ll check back for replies.
Fairly good article! It may happen in many cases where either of parents would be a native of other country with different language spoken. Now with kids being raised by with their native languages may stray their language that parents used. Teaching them with native language will help them to preserve and even improve family ties; understand own culture and rather enjoy two different cultures together – learning something more unique to execute; isn’t it nice!
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