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We started out with one parent, one language.  (I have a master's in linguistics and it seemed to be the recommended way to go) but was also very impractical for us.  I was the English parent but needed to speak Spanish at work and later druing the day wehn we moved to Mexico. (the same went for my husband when we moved back to the U.S).  Also, it always seemd rude to me (esp. since my husband and I are both bilingual) to speak to the children when grandparents or other family is around who doen't have a clue to what is being said.

The short version-my older 2 (15 and 13)  are pretty completely bilingual in English and Spanish. The 9 year old is a work in progress-he likes to pretend he doesn't know Spanish but definetely does (in fact with testing for K on paper he was proficient in Spanish but not English). My 3 1/2 is also truly bilingual at the 3 1/2 yr level but school changes things a bit.

The long version-we live on the border and have always kept an eye on developing both languages.  My daughter went to preschool first in Spanish in Mexico and then in English in the US. (my oldest son had only English though). My 9 year old also went to preschool in Spanish and 6 mos in English.  We also ran an intensive summer camp/school one year the oldest two attended in Spanish, along with family, trips, books, tv and movies.