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Saludos desde Orlando
September 9, 2009
11:37 am
Monica
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Iim so happy to have finally found a website that is all about raising bilingual kids! Por fin! I live in Orlando, FL and I'm married to a gringo, who understands a little bit of Spanish.

We have two children who are 6 and 5. I've always talked to them in Spanish, but not ONLY in Spanish. They understand mostly what I say, but they're very reluctant to speak it. Any ideas on how I can get them more interested? I'm a working mom, and my husband has a business, so he ends up spending more time with them. I want to be able to interact with my children and hear what they have to say, in any language. I feel that if I "make" them try to speak only Spanish to me, they just won't interact as much with me, since it is easier to go tell daddy (in English). Any suggestions?

Also, I'd love to put them in some kind of class or activity that centers around the Spanish language, but I haven't heard of anything like that around here. Anyone else in Florida?

September 10, 2009
2:01 pm
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Hi Monica,

¡Bienvenida!  We're glad you found us and joined this growing community.  It always feels good to know our challenges aren't only ours.

There's been many posts on the issue you're having, especially as questions to our Experts.  This would be an excellent question for our experts.  Would you mind if we use it?

The basic advice would be to incorporate Spanish into as many fun activities you can in their lives.  Try to have them watch movies with the Spanish language audio track (most have this option in the Set up menu), listen to Spanish music, read books in Spanish, etc.  But most important would be for them to have playmates that speak Spanish fluently and that somehow they would speak it together when playing.  It becomes a bit more difficult in your situation because you could say your language is being "outnumbered" 3 to 1, so it's really a strong commitment you need to make to find and engage in those meaningful activities with them.

Another advice is to have "Spanish-only days".  It could be on a weekend when everything you do centers on your cultural roots and language.  You can cook, watch a movie, go to a museum or event, etc and make it a full-on learning experience.

These are just my thoughts, I'm sure the experts can give you more specific advice.  The rest of the SB community also has great insights!

Regarding the classes in your area, we have an area in the forum called "Playgroups" which is divided by regions and it's the place for  you to post about referrals on classes, playgroups, etc or to put a call-out to start your own.

Hope this helps!

Ana Lilian

September 11, 2009
12:55 pm
Monica
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Thanks for your ideas! You can definetely use my questions for the Experts, I would love to hear their take on it, and anyone else's :)

January 18, 2010
8:18 am
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Hi Monica,

I also live in Orlando and speak only Spanish with my 2-year-old son. I am a single mom and not a native speaker (my son's father is). Despite the large number of Spanish speakers in Central Florida, I've had trouble finding Spanish-speaking activities/playgroups as well. Other than Spanish story time at the library, there aren't many organized options. I want my son to be exposed to other kids who speak Spanish so that he doesn't lose the skills he has, but I'm running into many obstacles — not the least of which is feeling somewhat excluded from the Hispanic culture since I am not Hispanic, but my son is.

Let me know if you have found any Spanish-speaking groups in Orlando.

Chelsea

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June 25, 2010
9:41 am
Gladys
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Hi, I'm also in the same boat here with my 19 month old child and an 11 year old child.  It may be late for the 11 year old but I'm determined not to make the same mistake with my 19 month old.  If there isn't already a play group for these children, why don't we just meet up with our own children and start one?  Please let me know if anyone else is interested in this!

June 29, 2010
2:37 pm
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Wow! Monica, Chelsea, and Gladys,

I sure hope you guys can get together!

Let us know how it goes, please!

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