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Hola! My husband and I have a 22 month old daughter and a 4 1/2 month son. Since day one, we have spoken only in Spanish to our children and we TRY to speak only in spanish to eachother. My parents only speak in Spanish to them which I am very lucky for. However, my in-laws refuse to be supportive because I think they feel that I am doing a disservice to my children by not exposing them to English now. The result of this is that my children are not bonding very much to my in-laws and are extremely attached to my parents. Oh well….With us, she only listens to spanish music and we only read in Spanish to her. So far, my daughter can carry on a simple dialogue in Spanish very well! (she can count to 10, can identify all basic colors, circles and triangles, can sing the words by heart to songs that I've exposed her to like Jose Luis Orozco and Cri Cri, knows when to say compermiso, gracias, de nada, buenos dias, te quiero mucho….ok enough of my bragging :) However, she can't understand strangers who try to speak in English to her. She reacts completely different to people who speak in Spanish and to those who speak to her in English. She is much more open to the Spanis speakers and becomes withdrawn with the English speakers. Thanks to this website, I am not worried about this aspect. She just started watching some english television shows (Sesame street, dora, etc) and is already showing a preference to count in English! My challenge is having her participate in spanish speaking play groups, as there are none in my area. We live in Bellflower, CA. There is a fabulous playgroup based out of Pasadena, but it's too far for us (most activites are about 40 minutes away). I'd love to hear from parents who have been successful at raising bilingual/bicultural children. If you're out there, please enlighten us and share your methods and experiences. I would also love to hear from parents who have children that have gone through a dual immersion program and if they would recommend this educational option. Looking forward to hearing from all of you!