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Does it get easier?
February 28, 2010
2:46 pm
Anamari
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Hi there/¡Hola!

I have a son of 6 who used to speak pretty good Spanish when my parents lived in the same country as me. Since the arrival of my second baby, now 2, I have become very lazy and speak Spanish occasionally which I feel very ashamed about. He can speak in basic sentences for some things but when he gets frustrated switches back to English. I know that I should speak to him in Spanish all of the time and know that his English won't suffer but secretly I also think that maybe it will! Has anyone else experienced the same difficulties? He does currently attend an after-school Spanish class and is 'top of the class', but the Spanish taught here is only very basic words and he does enjoy it and the 'kudos' of being the most able. Question 2) How can I move him along from basic words as my grammar is not perfecto.

Thankyou.

Muchas gracias por sus respuestas y ayuda. xxxxxLaugh

March 17, 2010
12:27 am
Catherine
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Hi, My experience is that the beginning is the hardest bit and the more you do it the easier it gets. I have a zero tolerance thing for spanish at home, that is I only ever speak to my girls in spanish and they are only ever allowed to speak to my in spanish. having said that it has been an issue about for times since they were born. (Sofia is 10)

Maybe find a friend that can encourage you, have music in spanish, if you watch DVDs then only use spanish ones. The most important thing as far as tools is concerned for me has been to read one book in spanish to the gilrs every bedtime. Perhaps you can join a spanish speaking playgroup.

Good luck.

March 17, 2010
9:16 pm
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Anamari, no need to be so hard on yourself. You're doing what you can, but I have to assure you that as long as you live in this country, his English WILL NOT suffer. I think it's normal to fear that, but it's not reality.

I also think it's awesome that he can attend an afterschool Spanish class and maybe you can use the fact that he enjoys being at the top of his class as an incentive to continue learning more. Reading to both your kids is a wonderful way to enhance their vocab. Here's some tips for some other ways:

http://www.spanglishbaby.com/2…..portunity/

http://www.spanglishbaby.com/2…..ocabulary/

Good luck! And, thanks for stopping by Smile

March 18, 2010
8:53 am
Tati
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I have had similar problems being completely consistent.  With my oldest, we did so well until sister was born and then until her other sister was born, or morning sickness was there or family that only speaks English comes in town, etc.  I used get really upset with myself.  But I try not to look back and realize that I have done my best.  Just try making a bigger effort now.  I applaud anyone that only speaks Spanish to their children.  I knew I was not willing to do that (but wish I could!!).  We use a lot of games and books on our Spanish days.  My girls love to play the games and I think they get more Spanish that they would with me just letting them play by themselves.  Here is a link to my blog with some activities we have used that my kids really enjoy: http://wannajugarwithmigo.blog…..Activities

Hope this helps!  And know that you are doing much more than most people so you should be satisfied with what you have done!! 

June 10, 2010
1:00 pm
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YES! It does get easier, Anamari! Check out http://www.spanglishbaby.com/2…..glishbaby/ especially the section that starts out "ways to boost the minority language" for several articles with great ideas that I think will really help you!

You don't have to speak Spanish 100% of the time or 100% perfectly (I don't either!). Even if you did, especially as children get older it's not just about the children hearing the language from a parent. It's important for you to be a cheerleader and promoter for the language. There are many things you can do, other than speaking the language yourself.

Check out the link above for these articles, and let us know what you think, and how it is going for you!

Don't give up!

 

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