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		<title>By: Denise Castrogiovanni</title>
		<link>http://spanglishbaby.com/2012/09/is-my-daughter-shy-or-is-she-not-bilingual-just-yet/#comment-181885</link>
		<dc:creator>Denise Castrogiovanni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Sep 2012 14:09:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Roxana, thank you for writing this article!  I have to agree with the others, she is simply more comfortable speaking Spanish when you&#039;re around.  I have an interesting dilemma which is what prompted me to come back on this site.  My daughter just started Kindergarten.  She speaks fluent Spanish, we have been speaking Spanish to her since she was born, no English at all.  She never went to daycare or any of those 2 day a week programs, she was home with Abuela for the first 4 years of her life, at 4 she started Pre-K at a regular English elementary school.  I&#039;ve only focused on teacher her Spanish so she was very fluent, knew all her numbers and letters, everything in Spanish only.  Well, I have to say it&#039;s been a bit of a rough ride for us since she started school.  She is doing great with picking up the English, however, she is not at the same level as the other kids.  I knew to expect this because she only started learning English in Pre-K, she&#039;s a lot more fluent now in English, but it&#039;s like she&#039;s just starting.  I received her first progress report and she is a bit behind especially in reading.  We now read to her in English and all of her homework is done in English and SPanish.  She is a lot more comfortable speaking in Spanish, although she tends to use English with my husband a lot.  My son is two years old and we are doing the OPOL method with him because we see how important it is for him to know English PRIOR to starting school.  I can&#039;t help but feel we made a mistake with our daughter focusing solely on Spanish.

Has this happened to anyone out there?  When will she catch up with the other kids?

Denise]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Roxana, thank you for writing this article!  I have to agree with the others, she is simply more comfortable speaking Spanish when you&#8217;re around.  I have an interesting dilemma which is what prompted me to come back on this site.  My daughter just started Kindergarten.  She speaks fluent Spanish, we have been speaking Spanish to her since she was born, no English at all.  She never went to daycare or any of those 2 day a week programs, she was home with Abuela for the first 4 years of her life, at 4 she started Pre-K at a regular English elementary school.  I&#8217;ve only focused on teacher her Spanish so she was very fluent, knew all her numbers and letters, everything in Spanish only.  Well, I have to say it&#8217;s been a bit of a rough ride for us since she started school.  She is doing great with picking up the English, however, she is not at the same level as the other kids.  I knew to expect this because she only started learning English in Pre-K, she&#8217;s a lot more fluent now in English, but it&#8217;s like she&#8217;s just starting.  I received her first progress report and she is a bit behind especially in reading.  We now read to her in English and all of her homework is done in English and SPanish.  She is a lot more comfortable speaking in Spanish, although she tends to use English with my husband a lot.  My son is two years old and we are doing the OPOL method with him because we see how important it is for him to know English PRIOR to starting school.  I can&#8217;t help but feel we made a mistake with our daughter focusing solely on Spanish.</p>
<p>Has this happened to anyone out there?  When will she catch up with the other kids?</p>
<p>Denise</p>
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		<title>By: Juan Callejas</title>
		<link>http://spanglishbaby.com/2012/09/is-my-daughter-shy-or-is-she-not-bilingual-just-yet/#comment-175244</link>
		<dc:creator>Juan Callejas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Sep 2012 06:59:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have enjoyed reading your article.  I too had a difficult time with my bilingual son.  We lived in Taiwan and I was his main English source.  I thought he would never use it because for his first two years he didn&#039;t put it to use much.  Then after 2 he became a chatterbox.  I have also introduced Spanish to him and is experimenting with my family in the US for a year so his grandparents can excite his spongy brain with Spanish.   Best regards, Juan]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have enjoyed reading your article.  I too had a difficult time with my bilingual son.  We lived in Taiwan and I was his main English source.  I thought he would never use it because for his first two years he didn&#8217;t put it to use much.  Then after 2 he became a chatterbox.  I have also introduced Spanish to him and is experimenting with my family in the US for a year so his grandparents can excite his spongy brain with Spanish.   Best regards, Juan</p>
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		<title>By: Vanessa, DeSuMama</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vanessa, DeSuMama</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Sep 2012 21:11:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[No advice,  just one of those parents who wished I had your &quot;problem&quot;! Congrats to you and beautiful Vane. Also, sounds like she has a progressive minded teacher who would alert you of any academic issues.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No advice,  just one of those parents who wished I had your &#8220;problem&#8221;! Congrats to you and beautiful Vane. Also, sounds like she has a progressive minded teacher who would alert you of any academic issues.</p>
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		<title>By: Roxana A. Soto</title>
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		<dc:creator>Roxana A. Soto</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Sep 2012 03:25:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Nick, thanks so much for your kind words and insightful comment!

As a writer/journalist, it is imperative that my kids not only speak, but also read and write in Spanish proficiently. I guess I should worry more about that than the issue I wrote about here. 

Congratulations on raising a bilingual child... especially since Spanish is not your first language! I&#039;m sure it&#039;s not easy, but it&#039;s a tremendous gift your giving your baby!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nick, thanks so much for your kind words and insightful comment!</p>
<p>As a writer/journalist, it is imperative that my kids not only speak, but also read and write in Spanish proficiently. I guess I should worry more about that than the issue I wrote about here. </p>
<p>Congratulations on raising a bilingual child&#8230; especially since Spanish is not your first language! I&#8217;m sure it&#8217;s not easy, but it&#8217;s a tremendous gift your giving your baby!</p>
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		<title>By: Roxana A. Soto</title>
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		<dc:creator>Roxana A. Soto</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Sep 2012 03:22:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Es que no hay de otra!!! No me veo hablándole en inglés!!! Jajaaj!!! Gracias Xochitl!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Es que no hay de otra!!! No me veo hablándole en inglés!!! Jajaaj!!! Gracias Xochitl!</p>
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		<title>By: Roxana A. Soto</title>
		<link>http://spanglishbaby.com/2012/09/is-my-daughter-shy-or-is-she-not-bilingual-just-yet/#comment-174431</link>
		<dc:creator>Roxana A. Soto</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Sep 2012 03:21:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wow! Right on, Elizabeth! You&#039;re totally right! I didn&#039;t even think about her teacher and how open she obviously is to bilingualism (even though she&#039;s not bilingual herself!). You&#039;ve made me look at the whole thing in a completely different way. 

I do plan on talking to Vanessa&#039;s teacher, although just like you, I think I would&#039;ve already heard from her if there were any issues whatsoever. 

Thanks so much for your words of encouragement. Just goes to show that we all need a little support and help sometimes. Gracias de verdad!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow! Right on, Elizabeth! You&#8217;re totally right! I didn&#8217;t even think about her teacher and how open she obviously is to bilingualism (even though she&#8217;s not bilingual herself!). You&#8217;ve made me look at the whole thing in a completely different way. </p>
<p>I do plan on talking to Vanessa&#8217;s teacher, although just like you, I think I would&#8217;ve already heard from her if there were any issues whatsoever. </p>
<p>Thanks so much for your words of encouragement. Just goes to show that we all need a little support and help sometimes. Gracias de verdad!</p>
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		<title>By: Roxana A. Soto</title>
		<link>http://spanglishbaby.com/2012/09/is-my-daughter-shy-or-is-she-not-bilingual-just-yet/#comment-174429</link>
		<dc:creator>Roxana A. Soto</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Sep 2012 03:18:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ay, Sisi, gracias por tu comentario!!! I love your suggestion and I will definitely put it to use immediately! Vamos a ver qué pasa!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ay, Sisi, gracias por tu comentario!!! I love your suggestion and I will definitely put it to use immediately! Vamos a ver qué pasa!!</p>
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		<title>By: Roxana A. Soto</title>
		<link>http://spanglishbaby.com/2012/09/is-my-daughter-shy-or-is-she-not-bilingual-just-yet/#comment-174426</link>
		<dc:creator>Roxana A. Soto</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Sep 2012 03:16:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for sharing your experiences, Olga. I&#039;m always in awe of people raising trilingual or multilingual children! Wished so much I could do the same for my kids! 

In terms of first grade being her first year of school, over here, Kinder is actually the first year. So her first experience with a full day of school was last year at the same elementary school. As I said on the post, she did wonderfully and is doing great in first grade, but I was just confused about what happened during the assessment. 

I love hearing from others&#039; experiences!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for sharing your experiences, Olga. I&#8217;m always in awe of people raising trilingual or multilingual children! Wished so much I could do the same for my kids! </p>
<p>In terms of first grade being her first year of school, over here, Kinder is actually the first year. So her first experience with a full day of school was last year at the same elementary school. As I said on the post, she did wonderfully and is doing great in first grade, but I was just confused about what happened during the assessment. </p>
<p>I love hearing from others&#8217; experiences!</p>
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		<title>By: Nick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Sep 2012 02:54:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Great post. I agree with the other comments, she just wasn&#039;t comfortable speaking to you in English in front of the teacher, maybe a little confused, collision of worlds type thing. We visited my cousin in Italy a few years back when his son was 9. They had been there a year, the son was totally fluent in Italian, parents just had the basics. He refused to speak in Italian with them, he would just look awkwardly like &quot;why should I speak in Italian to you?&quot;. But then he would run upstairs and have a full conversation with the babysitter in Italian. At some point she will have the realization that it&#039;s ok to speak English anywhere, especially in these mixed situations. 

We have a 13 month old so we are far off from your stage, just doing flash cards in English and Spanish and describing objects in both languages. We don&#039;t have the fortune of being native Spanish speakers but are fairly fluent from our studies and travels abroad. I&#039;d say be thankful you can teach her to speak Spanish fluently, as she won&#039;t get that in school. Just make sure she continues to learn proper grammar and writing in Spanish. I found in my AP classes and college courses that I had far superior reading and writing skills to the native speakers who had spoken Spanish all their lives but never spent a lot of time formally learning the grammar and rules as we did. What was harder for me was speaking and listening, that didn&#039;t come until I lived and studied abroad in a native environment.

Good luck and thanks again for posting this!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post. I agree with the other comments, she just wasn&#8217;t comfortable speaking to you in English in front of the teacher, maybe a little confused, collision of worlds type thing. We visited my cousin in Italy a few years back when his son was 9. They had been there a year, the son was totally fluent in Italian, parents just had the basics. He refused to speak in Italian with them, he would just look awkwardly like &#8220;why should I speak in Italian to you?&#8221;. But then he would run upstairs and have a full conversation with the babysitter in Italian. At some point she will have the realization that it&#8217;s ok to speak English anywhere, especially in these mixed situations. </p>
<p>We have a 13 month old so we are far off from your stage, just doing flash cards in English and Spanish and describing objects in both languages. We don&#8217;t have the fortune of being native Spanish speakers but are fairly fluent from our studies and travels abroad. I&#8217;d say be thankful you can teach her to speak Spanish fluently, as she won&#8217;t get that in school. Just make sure she continues to learn proper grammar and writing in Spanish. I found in my AP classes and college courses that I had far superior reading and writing skills to the native speakers who had spoken Spanish all their lives but never spent a lot of time formally learning the grammar and rules as we did. What was harder for me was speaking and listening, that didn&#8217;t come until I lived and studied abroad in a native environment.</p>
<p>Good luck and thanks again for posting this!</p>
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		<title>By: Xochitl Oseguera</title>
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		<dc:creator>Xochitl Oseguera</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2012 17:41:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Mi consejo es que le hables en español SIEMPRE!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mi consejo es que le hables en español SIEMPRE!</p>
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