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		<title>By: How Bilingual Parents Can Raise a Trilingual Child &#124; SpanglishBaby™</title>
		<link>http://spanglishbaby.com/2010/04/cultivating-our-trilingual-journey/#comment-137035</link>
		<dc:creator>How Bilingual Parents Can Raise a Trilingual Child &#124; SpanglishBaby™</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 May 2012 17:55:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] our daughter was born, almost two years ago, we decided to attempt to raise her with three languages. Most people we have met that are trilingual, in addition to the research I have done, either lived [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] our daughter was born, almost two years ago, we decided to attempt to raise her with three languages. Most people we have met that are trilingual, in addition to the research I have done, either lived [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Joe</title>
		<link>http://spanglishbaby.com/2010/04/cultivating-our-trilingual-journey/#comment-108654</link>
		<dc:creator>Joe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Mar 2012 19:17:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi, Just a tip based on the many bilinguals I have known. Those who tried to speak English to their children at home (to supposedly facilitate their learning), even though it was not their native language, ended up with children who spoke English with their accent. If you&#039;d like your children to speak a language without an accent, then I&#039;d stick to speaking to them only in your native language. It&#039;s better to find a caregiver, or audio tapes, videos to teach them native pronunciation and correct grammar. 

But there is also the question of how much money you want to, or can spend. If your resources are limited, I&#039;d recommend starting teaching the child a new language not before the age of 2 or 3 (when he or she can already speak one language decently) or even later, but it&#039;s a good idea to start before puberty, around which time language learning skills seem to diminish. The thing to remember is that for language learning to be useful and &quot;permanent&quot;, the child has to continuously use the language to not lose it. So if you start at age 2, then calculate having to pay for learning every year until he becomes an adult! Even as an adult, you can lose a language if you don&#039;t use it regularly, although it&#039;s somewhat more permanent than for a child. That being said, starting a language early, and &quot;losing&quot; it often still makes it easier to relearn it later.

The wonderful thing about language learning (and knowledge maintenance) today is the internet -  it&#039;s so much easier (and cheaper) nowadays to find media, films, and even connect with native speakers online than in the pre-internet world.

Though a word of caution; there is some evidence that for children who don&#039;t speak yet, showing films or playing tapes is pretty much useless, as they don&#039;t seem to respond to it like to real live people.  On the other hand my experience is that our child, who doesn&#039;t speak yet, responds to people on the screen through Skype exactly like to a live person.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, Just a tip based on the many bilinguals I have known. Those who tried to speak English to their children at home (to supposedly facilitate their learning), even though it was not their native language, ended up with children who spoke English with their accent. If you&#8217;d like your children to speak a language without an accent, then I&#8217;d stick to speaking to them only in your native language. It&#8217;s better to find a caregiver, or audio tapes, videos to teach them native pronunciation and correct grammar. </p>
<p>But there is also the question of how much money you want to, or can spend. If your resources are limited, I&#8217;d recommend starting teaching the child a new language not before the age of 2 or 3 (when he or she can already speak one language decently) or even later, but it&#8217;s a good idea to start before puberty, around which time language learning skills seem to diminish. The thing to remember is that for language learning to be useful and &#8220;permanent&#8221;, the child has to continuously use the language to not lose it. So if you start at age 2, then calculate having to pay for learning every year until he becomes an adult! Even as an adult, you can lose a language if you don&#8217;t use it regularly, although it&#8217;s somewhat more permanent than for a child. That being said, starting a language early, and &#8220;losing&#8221; it often still makes it easier to relearn it later.</p>
<p>The wonderful thing about language learning (and knowledge maintenance) today is the internet &#8211;  it&#8217;s so much easier (and cheaper) nowadays to find media, films, and even connect with native speakers online than in the pre-internet world.</p>
<p>Though a word of caution; there is some evidence that for children who don&#8217;t speak yet, showing films or playing tapes is pretty much useless, as they don&#8217;t seem to respond to it like to real live people.  On the other hand my experience is that our child, who doesn&#8217;t speak yet, responds to people on the screen through Skype exactly like to a live person.</p>
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		<title>By: Beth Ortuño</title>
		<link>http://spanglishbaby.com/2010/04/cultivating-our-trilingual-journey/#comment-76935</link>
		<dc:creator>Beth Ortuño</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 14:33:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Sina, 
I started out speaking to my son all in English and after noticing how much English was dominating, have moved to speaking with him in Spanish more, although I am not a native speaker. I stay within 1 language at a time (1 sentence at a time) so he is still getting the model of the language without mixing. I have found that my own Spanish is getting more spontaneous and comfortable. Reading aloud to him in Spanish is really helping me especially as he is growing into more complicated story books.  
I know it is important to provide a good model, not a &quot;broken&quot; version. But our son must have gotten enough of a quality &quot;native&quot; or &quot;pure&quot; input of either language from either me or others, despite the mistakes he hears me making in Spanish (and that is happening every time I talk with my husband&#039;s family, where I have no choice but to stay in Spanish whether or not I&#039;m completely being correct). 
At 3-1/2 he is doing fine in language skills. He&#039;s already reading short words which freaks me out. He even makes jokes with me or other people he knows are bilingual that play with the words of both languages. 
I would encourage you not to think you must do all or nothing. I would also say that whatever you start out doing, you can always adjust your strategy when you see that one language or other is lagging for her. 
And definitely check out Pocoyo en español on Youtube!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Sina,<br />
I started out speaking to my son all in English and after noticing how much English was dominating, have moved to speaking with him in Spanish more, although I am not a native speaker. I stay within 1 language at a time (1 sentence at a time) so he is still getting the model of the language without mixing. I have found that my own Spanish is getting more spontaneous and comfortable. Reading aloud to him in Spanish is really helping me especially as he is growing into more complicated story books.<br />
I know it is important to provide a good model, not a &#8220;broken&#8221; version. But our son must have gotten enough of a quality &#8220;native&#8221; or &#8220;pure&#8221; input of either language from either me or others, despite the mistakes he hears me making in Spanish (and that is happening every time I talk with my husband&#8217;s family, where I have no choice but to stay in Spanish whether or not I&#8217;m completely being correct).<br />
At 3-1/2 he is doing fine in language skills. He&#8217;s already reading short words which freaks me out. He even makes jokes with me or other people he knows are bilingual that play with the words of both languages.<br />
I would encourage you not to think you must do all or nothing. I would also say that whatever you start out doing, you can always adjust your strategy when you see that one language or other is lagging for her.<br />
And definitely check out Pocoyo en español on Youtube!</p>
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		<title>By: Sina</title>
		<link>http://spanglishbaby.com/2010/04/cultivating-our-trilingual-journey/#comment-76324</link>
		<dc:creator>Sina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 20:31:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m following this post with interest. We too are raising our daughter trilingually (well, if you include sign language, 4 languages!). I speak to my daughter and husband in English, her care provider speaks to her in Spanish and my husband speaks to her in Hindi. We also use signs which she still uses for some words or to reinforce some words (Please, thank you, sorry.)   We are moving to India in two months where she will be exposed to Hindi and English on a constant basis and I&#039;m trying to figure out how to make sure she doesn&#039;t lose both the receptive and productive Spanish she&#039;s learned (songs, numbers, letters, and some words) as it&#039;s important to me having grown up in California and we&#039;re also planning on returning in a few years.

I speak Spanish (not fluent by a long shot, but conversational) and wondering if I should start speaking Spanish, playing music and  and reading her books in Spanish with her? I&#039;m definitely hoping to find Spanish speaking mom and kid playgroups in Delhi but not sure if that is possible. 

thanks for any insight or tips!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m following this post with interest. We too are raising our daughter trilingually (well, if you include sign language, 4 languages!). I speak to my daughter and husband in English, her care provider speaks to her in Spanish and my husband speaks to her in Hindi. We also use signs which she still uses for some words or to reinforce some words (Please, thank you, sorry.)   We are moving to India in two months where she will be exposed to Hindi and English on a constant basis and I&#8217;m trying to figure out how to make sure she doesn&#8217;t lose both the receptive and productive Spanish she&#8217;s learned (songs, numbers, letters, and some words) as it&#8217;s important to me having grown up in California and we&#8217;re also planning on returning in a few years.</p>
<p>I speak Spanish (not fluent by a long shot, but conversational) and wondering if I should start speaking Spanish, playing music and  and reading her books in Spanish with her? I&#8217;m definitely hoping to find Spanish speaking mom and kid playgroups in Delhi but not sure if that is possible. </p>
<p>thanks for any insight or tips!</p>
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		<title>By: AnaGloria</title>
		<link>http://spanglishbaby.com/2010/04/cultivating-our-trilingual-journey/#comment-10420</link>
		<dc:creator>AnaGloria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2010 02:53:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think you are so right, Jennifer, on several points.  Once the foundation for learning different languages is set, it just makes it easier. And you&#039;re absolutely right that one needs to use it or lose it.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you are so right, Jennifer, on several points.  Once the foundation for learning different languages is set, it just makes it easier. And you&#8217;re absolutely right that one needs to use it or lose it.</p>
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		<title>By: Angelina</title>
		<link>http://spanglishbaby.com/2010/04/cultivating-our-trilingual-journey/#comment-8421</link>
		<dc:creator>Angelina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jul 2010 00:43:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[hiya! thanks for posting your reply! i&#039;m also raising my infant trilingually (spanish/english/french) &amp; since she&#039;s still only 10 months, i&#039;ve wondered if all this hard work is truly paying off. i&#039;t&#039;s encouraging to hear from someone with a success story!!! i&#039;ve a question or two for you though (if you don&#039;t mind)...how did you do it logistically? my baby gets french mornings, spanish afternoons, &amp; english here &amp; there. sound good? also, did you &#039;read&#039; the same picture books in all 3 languages? i do that but wonder if she&#039;s getting confused with the exact same material being used in all languages. thanks in advance for your reply!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hiya! thanks for posting your reply! i&#8217;m also raising my infant trilingually (spanish/english/french) &amp; since she&#8217;s still only 10 months, i&#8217;ve wondered if all this hard work is truly paying off. i&#8217;t's encouraging to hear from someone with a success story!!! i&#8217;ve a question or two for you though (if you don&#8217;t mind)&#8230;how did you do it logistically? my baby gets french mornings, spanish afternoons, &amp; english here &amp; there. sound good? also, did you &#8216;read&#8217; the same picture books in all 3 languages? i do that but wonder if she&#8217;s getting confused with the exact same material being used in all languages. thanks in advance for your reply!</p>
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		<title>By: Angelina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Angelina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jul 2010 00:37:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[hey there. i don&#039;t know if you&#039;ll still read this but i&#039;m also raising my infant trilingually (spanish/english/french). to answer your question about locating children&#039;s french materials, try www.frenchbooksonline.com. i&#039;ve bought several board &amp; audio books from them (some of which contain songs) &amp; they&#039;re imported directly from france. the selection is great, the prices are decent &amp; shipping is free (within the u.s.), plus i&#039;ve been given discount coupons. i hope this helps!!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey there. i don&#8217;t know if you&#8217;ll still read this but i&#8217;m also raising my infant trilingually (spanish/english/french). to answer your question about locating children&#8217;s french materials, try <a href="http://www.frenchbooksonline.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.frenchbooksonline.com</a>. i&#8217;ve bought several board &amp; audio books from them (some of which contain songs) &amp; they&#8217;re imported directly from france. the selection is great, the prices are decent &amp; shipping is free (within the u.s.), plus i&#8217;ve been given discount coupons. i hope this helps!!!</p>
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		<title>By: sgmateus</title>
		<link>http://spanglishbaby.com/2010/04/cultivating-our-trilingual-journey/#comment-7349</link>
		<dc:creator>sgmateus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 May 2010 14:19:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Everyone,

It&#039;s Suzanne. I finally figured out how to leave comments....easy task...long story. I have been wanting to say THANK YOU. Thank you for sharing YOUR stories, your thoughts...they inspire me. I&#039;m getting a little nervous about our &quot;trilingual journey&quot; as my due date approaches. I am looking for iphone spanish language apps and online french classes for me.

As far as the annotated bibliography Im waiting to get it back from my professor. I want to edit it, but do want to say that I learned a lot. A lot of what I&#039;m sure the &quot;experts&quot; have and will share about multilingualism. 

saludos,
suzanne]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Everyone,</p>
<p>It&#8217;s Suzanne. I finally figured out how to leave comments&#8230;.easy task&#8230;long story. I have been wanting to say THANK YOU. Thank you for sharing YOUR stories, your thoughts&#8230;they inspire me. I&#8217;m getting a little nervous about our &#8220;trilingual journey&#8221; as my due date approaches. I am looking for iphone spanish language apps and online french classes for me.</p>
<p>As far as the annotated bibliography Im waiting to get it back from my professor. I want to edit it, but do want to say that I learned a lot. A lot of what I&#8217;m sure the &#8220;experts&#8221; have and will share about multilingualism. </p>
<p>saludos,<br />
suzanne</p>
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		<title>By: Susan</title>
		<link>http://spanglishbaby.com/2010/04/cultivating-our-trilingual-journey/#comment-6601</link>
		<dc:creator>Susan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Apr 2010 04:02:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi--

Please share your bibliography on trilingualism when it is prepared.  I would love to learn more.  

We are raising our sons trilingual.  I speak to them in Spanish and my husband speaks to them in German.  My husband and I speak to each other in English.  It is amazing how well my two and half year old can move between languages.  

Good luck on your own trilingual journey, and please share what you learn.

Susan]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi&#8211;</p>
<p>Please share your bibliography on trilingualism when it is prepared.  I would love to learn more.  </p>
<p>We are raising our sons trilingual.  I speak to them in Spanish and my husband speaks to them in German.  My husband and I speak to each other in English.  It is amazing how well my two and half year old can move between languages.  </p>
<p>Good luck on your own trilingual journey, and please share what you learn.</p>
<p>Susan</p>
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		<title>By: Beth Butler</title>
		<link>http://spanglishbaby.com/2010/04/cultivating-our-trilingual-journey/#comment-6598</link>
		<dc:creator>Beth Butler</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Apr 2010 18:47:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love the open and candid exchanges on this forum.  Each of us have things to contribute, experiences to share, and words of advice.

After reading Suzanne&#039;s post about her continued commitment to raising their baby to be trilingual, I continue to find myself so very thankful for the SpanglishBaby community that Ana and Roxana have built here!  Gracias/Thank you
.-= Beth Butler&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://bocabeth.net/2010/04/15/math-skills-language-skills-gross-motor-development-and-so-much-more-with-five-little-monkeys-bilingual-song-fun/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Math Skills, Language Skills, Gross Motor Development and so much more with Five Little Monkeys bilingual song fun!&lt;/a&gt; =-.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love the open and candid exchanges on this forum.  Each of us have things to contribute, experiences to share, and words of advice.</p>
<p>After reading Suzanne&#8217;s post about her continued commitment to raising their baby to be trilingual, I continue to find myself so very thankful for the SpanglishBaby community that Ana and Roxana have built here!  Gracias/Thank you<br />
.-= Beth Butler&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://bocabeth.net/2010/04/15/math-skills-language-skills-gross-motor-development-and-so-much-more-with-five-little-monkeys-bilingual-song-fun/" rel="nofollow">Math Skills, Language Skills, Gross Motor Development and so much more with Five Little Monkeys bilingual song fun!</a> =-.</p>
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